Masturbation coaching is about developing a satisfying and nourishing solo erotic practice.

I am running an event in London in January 2020 called Developing a nourishing self pleasure practice. Click on the link to find out more.

Why do we need masturbation coaching?

I am yet to meet anyone who was taught how to masturbate. That in itself can send a message that it is not something we should talk about, never mind enjoy.

I wrote an article which you can read here, asking ‘Is masturbation a part of your self care?‘ I think it should be.

Learning to enjoy our bodies, exactly as they are, can transform how we feel about ourselves and how we relate to others.

Who is masturbation coaching for?

My clients are gender, sexuality and relationship diverse.

Some want to explore their mind and body in an erotic way, others are bored of touching themselves in the same way, many believe they could have a lot more pleasure.

Whatever your reason, if you think it might help, it probably will.

How does masturbation coaching work?

I offer masturbation coaching as a remote package, in other words, the coaching is done via Zoom video conferencing.

  • We start with an ‘I want to….’ form with a series of statements around sensuality and sexuality, which you grade in terms of how interested you are in exploring.
  • Then, we have a 30 minute video call, where we talk about statements on the form that were most appealing, you can share some masturbation history, and have the opportunity to reflect, with me, on any issues you may have and why you have them.
  • Finally, I share the practice and offer you ‘homework’.
  • I follow up this with an email reminding you of the homework, and that’s when you get to explore yourself in the comfort of your own home.
  • There are 3 home practices, after which, you briefly describe your experience, and I give you coaching after each one, all by email.
  • After the 3rd home practice, we have another 30 minute video call, to reflect on these experiences and what your future solo erotic practice might look like.

This coaching is all online, and is available to all, regardless of geographical location.

You can also pick some great tips here in this article for Dazed Digital.

Alternative approach?

You are welcome to suggest a different approach, perhaps with longer sessions and video calls between sessions.

Some people want to add masturbation witnessing after exploring masturbation coaching. If we can agree it, we can do it.

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