What are your relationship needs?

As we start to open up and meet with people again, being clearer on relationships is more relevant than ever.

Sue shares the essence of this 5-week enquiry in the video below:

Discovering your Relationship Needs Blueprint – May 2021

This 5-week enquiry is for anyone interested in understanding the aspects of relating they want in their lives and includes these live 1-hour classes:

  • Introducing the Relational Needs Framework
  • Looking within: what are your needs?
  • You and another: foundational relationship elements
  • Reviewing your relationship landscape
  • Setting intentions for relationships ongoing

Each class has a dedicated live 30-minute Questions and Answers.

All participants have access to content, links and more on The Feel Forum.

Live classes

These will be interactive using our bodies and our mind for embodied learning via our collective screens and through the Zoom chat.

Each class will be available to watch and listen to on The Feel Forum to support you getting the most out of the classes.

Watching again can help the information land in the mind, body and nervous system.

Collectively, our eyes are tired of looking at screens. Listening can give our eyes much-needed rest.

Question and Answer Sessions

After you’ve been to the class or watched it on The Feel Forum, you are welcome to join the Q&A sessions.

These are for people who have seen the class.

There is no content planned for these sessions. It’s a chance to ask questions arising from the class of Sue, the crew and each other.

Why have the Questions and Answers sessions separate from the class?

To allow the live class’s content to visit the mind, body and nervous system of participants.

Many of us need a couple of nights of sleep to recognise how we feel and may have questions as a result.

Time to process helps everyone have the chance to ask burning questions before moving onto the next class.

The intention is to include everyone and not leave anyone behind.

Course logistics

  1. Introducing the Relational Needs Framework – Live 1-hour Zoom

Choose from either of these live classes or attend both:

  • Wednesday 28th April– 7pm to 8pm BST
  • Sunday 2nd May – 7.30pm to 8.30pm BST

2. Follow up Question & Answers session – Drop-in 30-minute Zoom

Choose from either of these Q&As or attend both:

  • Sunday 2nd May – 6pm to 6.30pm BST
  • Tuesday 4th May – 5.30pm to 6pm BST

3. Looking within: what are your needs? – Live 1-hour Zoom

Choose from either of these or attend both:

  • Wednesday 5th May – 7pm to 8pm BST
  • Sunday 9th May – 7.30pm to 8.30pm BST

4. Follow up Question & Answers session – Drop-in 30-minute Zoom

Choose from either of these Q&As or attend both:

  • Sunday 9th May – 6pm to 6.30pm BST
  • Tuesday 11th May – 5.30pm to 6pm BST

5. You and another: foundational relationship elements – Live 1-hour Zoom

Choose from either of these or attend both:

  • Wednesday 12th May – 7pm to 8pm BST
  • Sunday 16th May – 7.30pm to 8.30pm BST

6. Follow up Question & Answers session – Drop-in 30-minute Zoom

Choose from either of these Q&As or attend both:

  • Sunday 16th May – 6pm to 6.30pm BST
  • Tuesday 18th May – 5.30pm to 6pm BST

7. Reviewing your relationship landscape – Live 1-hour Zoom

Choose from either of these or attend both:

  • Wednesday 19th May – 7pm to 8pm BST
  • Sunday 23rd May – 7.30pm to 8.30pm BST

8. Follow up Question & Answers session – Drop-in 30-minute Zoom

Choose from either of these Q&As or attend both:

  • Sunday 23rd May – 6pm to 6.30pm BST
  • Tuesday 25th May – 5.30pm to 6pm BST

9. Setting intentions for relationships ongoing – Live 1-hour Zoom

Choose from either of these or attend both:

  • Wednesday 26th May – 7pm to 8pm BST
  • Sunday 30th May – 7.30pm to 8.30pm BST

10. Follow up Question & Answers session – Drop-in 30-minute Zoom

Choose from either of these Q&As or attend both:

  • Sunday 30th May – 6pm to 6.30pm BST
  • Tuesday 1st June – 5.30pm to 6pm BST

How much is the course?

Course costs are in 2 parts – a deposit and donation.

This course costs £100 plus donation(s)

The intention is to make the course accessible to as many people as possible.

Some people have more money than others and can afford to pay much more.

For others, the deposit is a stretch as it is.

The deposit

The deposit is your way of saying, “I am in” and covers the set-up costs and the preparations. For example, the deposit pays the crew for their time as part of the coming together, reviewing the class material and logistics.

The deposit for this course is £100.

You can pay your deposit via the PayPal button below.

Please make sure you choose ‘Family and Friends’ or add a couple of pounds to cover PayPal fees.

You can also pay a donation at the same time, up to you.

 

 

Once you’ve paid your deposit, please send me an e-mail from your preferred email address telling me you’ve paid.

I’ll cross-check and add you to The Feel Forum and the course with your preferred email address.

The donation

The donation is determined by you, based on your finances and how much you value the course and community.

  • You can donate up front when you pay the deposit.
  • You can donate when you experience something you value.
  • You can make multiple donations.
  • You can donate at the end when you have completed the course.

The donation allows Sue to keep a roof over their head.

Donations lead to the creation of more courses.

All crew receive a percentage of every donation made.

You can pay your donation using the button below.

 

 

Ideally, the minimum suggested donation is £50 – if you can afford it.

If you can pay more, please do!

Any surplus funds will go to The Feel Institute low-cost clinic. These allow more one to one sessions for those who can’t afford it.

Who are the crew?

The crew are ready, and there has been a lot of work going on in the background. I am smiling at the company we will be in already!

Sue will facilitate all classes and Q&As.

The incredible crew are supporting this work and holding this group. I’ve included their pronouns and gender identities, as well as links to their work.

They are:

  • Ali Pilling
  • Alice Minney
  • Katia Shulga
  • Michael Dresser
  • Plus me, Sue Sutherland (they/they) – queer and genderfluid

You will meet two of the crew at each of the classes and one crew at the Q&As.

Are you interested in joining the crew?

The Feel Institute was never going to be about one person.

Collaboration, co-creation and community are at the heart of the Institute.

I want people with different life experiences and perspectives in the room.

The first step in becoming a crew member is experiencing a course as a participant.

If the participant experience enlivens you, tell Sue or one of the crew you are interested in becoming crew.

Any other questions?

Email Sue here.

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