The Feel Institute
Getting to the heart of the matter


  • Who is this erection for?

    Who is this erection for?
    Yes, I am talking about erections, hard cocks, erect pricks, and big knobs. Maybe you prefer a more technically correct penis, or is it a love muscle when you are in the mood for some Barry…

  • What is sexological bodywork?

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    Me: A Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker…
    Them: You’re a sexological bodyworker…a sexo…do you have sex with these people?
    Me: No.
    Them: Are you a prostitute?
    Me: No. I am a sexological bodyworker who is trained…

  • One for sorrow. Is single bad?

    Single = bad
    For as long as I can remember, I knew that seeing a single, solidarity magpie was bad luck.

    As a child, the nursery rhyme was both superstition and fact. I believed it to be true, and why wouldn’t I?


  • Harvesting the gifts of pain

    5Rhythms – an ongoing practice
    He did it again, except this time it was deeper and longer.

    I’m talking about Richard Wiltshire, a 5Rhythms movement meditation teacher based in London. This weekend, he led ‘A Deeper Acceptance: creating healing through movement’. A sister…

  • The Naked Photoshoot

    Naked again
    Anyone who has known me, in particular settings, over the last few years, may have seen me naked. It has been a thing I have been doing more and more.
    Earlier this year, I’d stumbled across a post for a…

  • Permission and Pain

    Pain and 5Rhythms
    In the last couple of days, I have tapped into something new in relation to my constant, and ever present, pain.
    For the very first time, I was given permission to feel it. I mean, really feel it.
    It would…